It's Potty Time!!!

A lot  of people keep asking me how we go about  toilet training.  I  am in no way an expert, but will try to explain what works for us.  We used elimination communication (EC) with our oldest and our youngest.  They were fairly easy to figure out when they would need to go to the restroom.  We started out using EC when they were about three months old they did wear diapers.  We just removed the diapers to hold them over the potty.  We were not strict EC-ers but we did it when it was convenient for us.  Our middle child had retention issues and was not so easily timed, so we did not use EC. 

(Here is a link to an EC site that talks more about it.)

 

By the time of our children stayed dry through naps (around 18 months), they were very familiar with the potty already. I made sure that my schedule was open for an entire week prior to beginning formal potty training.  I  told them that they would not be wearing diapers anymore now that they're big kids and that they should "pee-pee" on the potty and not in their pants.  I did give them either a M&M or  marshmallow each time they went on the potty.  They were cloth training pants to help them feel wet. I also had them only wear the training pants and no pants over them.  Less wash and quicker to catch them and bring them to the potty.   (Here is a tutorial on making your own training pants.)

 

The first day of training I'd try to take them to the bathroom every half an hour.  I would sit them on the potty for just a few minutes.  Because they were used to going on the potty, they would usually go within a minute.  By the end of the week, I would need to take them every hour or so.  We would gradually be able to go for 2 hours in between potty times.  I would use the same key words that I used while doing EC.  When they would urinate, I would say, " pee-pee."   When they would have a BM, I would say,   "poo-poo."  If they were successful, we would celebrate big time!  The older children were involved in this celebration.  It was like a big party every time they went to the bathroom.  Everyone got a marshmallow.

 

The best advice I can give is to be patient and celebrate and have fun.  Wait until you have time to do it.  Make it a whole family affair and enjoy each other.  It won't last forever, believe me, I've been there.

 

 

Resources:

Here is the board book that all of my kids loved.  Just find a book that uses the same kind of "potty" that you will use.

 Click here to try and buy it used.

 

We used this style of potty seat that fits on top of the toilet.  I had bought some other seat with pee guards that folded down.  They were a disaster!  They would always fall of and into the toilet.  This one has a hard pee guard that snaps firmly in place to use with little boys. 

Click on the seat to find one from Target.

Potty chairs-- make sure you use one that is low enough to the ground that it is easy for your child to sit down without help.  Also, make sure it is easy to empty (you will be doing this a lot!)  For boys, make sure the pee-guard actually is tall enough to keep it all in and also won't fall off all of the time. 

Marshmallow Fondant

I decided to make a couple of cakes for my Mom's 50th birthday and tried out marshmallow fondant for the first time.   It was very easy to make, after the mishap with the first batch (as described later). 

I think that the cakes turned out fairly well.  I was wanting a black and white cake, but ruined the black fondant by adding too much powdered sugar, then all of the black  gel.  It ended up being a pile of gray goo.  I changed plans and bought some gold ribbon on clearance.  I used gold ribbon on the devil's food round cake and pure white fondant on the rectangular white cake with blackberry filling.  It was a lot of fun playing with the fondant, although I like the taste of butter cream icing  much better. 

What can you make with spaghetti and marshmallows?

Joshua and Brian read a wonderful Usborne book entitled, 100 Science Experiments. They decided do one of the experiments that involved making stuctures out of spaghetti noodles and marshmallows. Joshua made several different stuctures and even tried to build a tower strong enough to hold a toy car. Brian was able to help build one tower, but it was a little challenging for him. Lucas was wanting to be right there in the middle of the action.

This is the structure with a piece of paper on it on which he was going to place the car. Will the building stand?

It could not withstand the weight of the car. So sad. We will try another day....

Christmas Pancakes Anyone?

I decided to make some special pancakes for each of the boys for Christmas Eve.  Each boy had a pancake in the shape of his initial and a Christmas tree pancake.  Find your favorite recipe for pancakes, place in a bottle with a nozzle (kind of like a restaurant ketchup bottle). I found one at WalMart in the cooking section for less than $1.  Warm up the pan and make the shapes that they want.  It's pretty easy and they loved it! Yummy!

If You Build It, They Will ...Eat It

 

 

Here is Joshua starting with the icing.  He was the project supervisor.

 

 

 

  Brian was in charge of the candy and where it should go. 

 

 

    

 

 

                               The finished product! 

  Lucas was not happy until it was time to EAT the gingerbread house. 

How to Make Your Own Laundry Detergent

I found a wonderful post on The Simple Dollar about making your own liquid laundry detergent and thought that I would give it a try.  The cost per load for a front-loading washing machine is only about 1 cent and a little over 2 cents for a top-loading machine.  It turned out wonderfully, but it didn't start off so well.  I started the water boiling on the stove while I helped Joshua shred the soap.  I looked up and out of the corner of my eye I saw flames!  I had caught my hot pads on fire by turning on the wrong burner.  Keith was sick and was soaking in the tub trying to feel better when I yelled out, "I'm on fire!"  I have no idea why I said that, but it came out.  I quickly poured some water on the hot pads, turned off the burner and all was safe.  Joshua told me, "Wow, that's the first fire we had."  I took this as an opportunity to "teach" the kids what to do in case of a fire. :) Ahh, teachable moments...

Update:  I have used this detergent for a little over 2 months and it cleans wonderfully.  The clothes look, smell, and feel clean.  I think I may still be able to use this batch for at least another month (for a family of 5).

Small House Movement?

We live in a 3 bedroom, one bathroom home with 1350 square feet and no garage.  We have 5 people in our family and 4 of us are there almost all of the time, since we home school.

I recently read a blog post on The Simple Dollar about The Small House Movement.  It was what I needed.  I get antsy sometimes and want to try to buy a larger home or build an addition onto our existing home, but I forget the long term benefits of our smaller, more modest home.  We are able to pay off this home much quickly and save thousands of dollars in interest and taxes than in a larger, more expensive home.  We have been able to pay off nearly half of the value of our home, and may be able to pay it off within 7 years!  Yay! 

We are also being green by staying in a smaller home which uses less electricity and gas.  I like that!  I don't know if I agree with Trent that it is easier to clean.  I think it is easier to get cluttered with things, so I have to constantly be evaluating the benefit of having something inside our home.  It does force us to live with less things, which is also a money-saver!  Hooray for our little home!